John Piper: “Boasting is the response of pride to success. Self-pity is the response of pride to failure.”
Update: Here’s a follow-up: “BOASTING: ‘I deserve praise because I’ve achieved so much.’ SELF-PITY: ‘I deserve praise because I’ve endured so much.'”
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